The "Fem Mah BLOGS"

2009-10-05T12:29:00.001-07:00

To the person who called into the show from an anynomous number talking about smacking his girlfriend around, obviously you are a coward! If you are so proud of how you treat your lady then why are you so afraid of people knowing your identity. Real Men don't hit! Obviously this means you are not a man. To the lady who is with you, she deserves much better than a coward who spends his time bullying women like a child on the school playground!

Deborah Deras Sept 27th 2009

2009-09-27T11:38:00.000-07:00

Deborah Deras is a Principal of Synergy Unlimited. She brings to the company her background as an event planner and counselor for the State of California. She is a charismatic speaker, highly energetic seminar leader and master results coach certified in Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Hypnosis. She received a full grant for her Master of Science in Counseling from California State University, Los Angeles. She also earned a National Certification as a Rehabilitation Counselor from the Commission a Rehabilitation Counseling Certification. She has received post-graduate training from the American Seminar Leadership Association in which she obtained a Certification as an Action Coach. Currently, she is a Professor of Human Services at the University of Phoenix. She will be licensed as a Spiritual Counselor under the direction of Dr. Michael Beckwith founder of the Agape Spiritual Center in June, 2008.
Deborah brings a standard of excellence to all of her presentations. Some of her satisfied clients include Child Care Resource Center, Creative Solutions, Careerbuilder, National Political Women’s Network, Caltech, Staples, ACW of Jet Propulsion Laboratories, ZEST, PacifiCare, Home Depot, HOPE, and the YWCA.
Deborah Deras is very active in the Latino business community. She was recently nominated as the Latina Entrepreneur of Year (2004) by the Latin Business Association and the winner of the Latina of the Month, by the National Latina Business Women's Association. She is also regularly featured as an expert speaker and coach in Latina and Catalina Magazines. She has appeared on numerous television and radio show most recently on the Pat Prescott show, Visions and Views on 94.7-KTWV, "The Wave".
She lives in Los Angeles and enjoys Salsa dancing, meditating and traveling the world.

The Law of Attraction:
Apply the teaching of “The Secret” to Create the Life you Love
Would you like double your income, meet your life partner and discover your life’s purpose? Would you like to see the Law of Attraction really work for you? This workshop will teach you many Universal Laws to attract what you desire into your life. We provide a hands on approach to developing the skills to manifest your destiny with simple easy to use techniques.

Universal Laws govern the Universe. They are basic principles of life and have been around since Creation. They are laws of the Divine Universe. Universal Laws apply to everyone, everywhere. They cannot be changed. They cannot be broken.
The Universal Law of Attraction (LOA) is the most powerful law in the universe. It is simple in concept but practice is necessary. But once you "get it", there is no looking back! It will be part of you forever. The simplest definition of this law is "like attracts like."
Other definitions include:
You get what you put your energy and focus on, whether wanted or unwanted. The Law of Attraction is neutral.
All forms of matter and energy are attracted to that which is of a like vibration.
You are a living magnet.
Energy attracts like energy
"That which is like unto itself is drawn." Abraham-Hicks
The Law of Attraction is fun to learn and use because you are always watching, waiting expectantly for your desires to manifest. You can deliberately use this law to create your future!
Universal Law of Attraction

This universal law is working in your life right now, whether you are aware of it or not. You are attracting the people, situations, jobs and much more into your life. Once you are aware of this law and how it works, you can start to use it to deliberately attract what you want into your life.
How do you create your desires using the powerful law? There are just a few basic steps.

1. Ask

2. Source says YES!

3. Allow It
You must be very clear on exactly what your desire is. Focus on it. Give it all your positive energy. Visualize and raise your vibration about it. Feel good!
A major factor behind this Universal Law is the energy and vibrations of our emotions and feelings. Any thought you may have, when combined with emotion, vibrates out from you to the universe and will attract back what you want.
You can leave all the details to the universe. Let the Universe figure out the method of delivery, when you will receive it, etc. Now all you have to do is Allow It. Sounds easy, right? This can be the most difficult part to do. Be doubt-free. All you need to do is expect it. Act like you already have it. Be grateful.
And always take inspired action. If something feels right, then go ahead and do it. Taking action is an important step.
That is it! You can always be expectant of good things, your desires. Feel good knowing your desire is on its way to you.

Always expect your desires. Expect miracles.

Contact: (310) 945-5651
E-Mail: deb@synergyunlimited.net
Website: http://www.synergyunlimited.net

Igniting Passion and Energy for the Work and Life You Love

2009-09-27T07:36:00.000-07:00

Jodi Michele Cooley

Topics: Disabilities, Inspirational, Parenting and Children, Self-Care

Have you cracked the code that allows your dreams to come true? So many of us are taught to ignore our feelings or sock them away. As a result, we aren't truly aware of our feelings or how to live them out appropriately. The result? We end up full of rage, depressed or extremely disappointed, causing us to live our lives on auto-pilot, rather than by design. In her humorous, compassionate talk, Empowerment Coach Jodi Michele Cooley presents her 3-step Feel It Thru Method that helps you get crystal clear on what you’re feeling, and shows how to work with your feelings instead of against them. “When we give ourselves permission to feel all our emotions and work with our feelings,” says Cooley, “we develop incredible inter-personal relationships, as well as an awesome relationship with self.”

Cooley’s breakthrough presentation shows how to decipher the messages from our bodies and emotions that say, “Give me freedom!” Our feelings are radar detectors, says Jodi, but often we don’t listen. ” We’ve all had a gut feeling that afterwards we knew was right on,” she points out. In Jodi's signature talk Whatever You Want, You Have to Feel Your Way There you will:

• Learn to navigate your emotions and use them as fuel

• Rebel against adversity

• Stop living in default mode

• Finally understand your life's journey

• Jumpstart your creativity

• Spearhead radical change in all areas of your life

You’ll learn how to hear the messages your body and emotions are sending and take action without delay. This enhances your sense of well-being and replaces defeatist thoughts with feelings of hope. “Your personal mythology becomes a transformational journey,” says Cooley. “You accept life’s challenges and crash through the barriers that have held you prisoner.”

From early childhood, Jodi Cooley turned obstacles into challenges. At age 6, she was the primary caretaker for her mother, who had MS, and later she developed her own health challenge: Transverse Myelitis. She’s been through severe depression and has a daughter with developmental delays. An inspiring, motivational speaker, she shares the wisdom and sanity she's gained in making peace with herself and the rest of the world. Using humor, humility and humanity, she makes each listener feel they are not alone, as she offers tools to expand beyond the limitations life hands us.

You’ll leave Jodi Michele Cooley’s presentation with a deeper connection to your body and emotions, ready to experience greater aliveness, inspiration, enthusiasm, self-renewal and clarity. “I show you how to live in the “-ing” of the present, not the “-ed” of the past,” says Jodi. “People come away with greater clarity and a new perspective on their life.”

Inquire about rates outside the area

Contact: (818) 762-4835
E-Mail: jodimichelecooley@gmail.com
Website: http://www.jodimichelecooley.com

W.O.M.A.N. A New Definition

2009-09-26T21:20:00.000-07:00

Gina Cloud

Topics: Natural Beauty, Self Empowerment, Tweens, Women's Issues

Do you think of yourself as a “woman” – or as W.O.M.A.N.? "Women are exploited biologically, sociologically, even personally," says Gina Cloud, who coined the powerful acronym W.O.M.A.N. – Wild, Open, Magical, Authentically-empowered, Nectar. "It’s time for images of woman that are woman-made." Gina's inspiring talks reconnect women and men alike with the mystery that is Woman – her essence, beauty and truth. “The true beauty of who we are has been lost or exploited by the media in all its forms," she says. "Empowerment is from the inside out, not the outside in – and so is beauty.” Her enlightening presentations explode the myths and misinformation put forth by our culture, the media and the medical community, and her new formula for becoming who you truly are is part Goddess, part feminist, part revolutionary ─ and all W.O.M.A.N.

Gina's dynamic, heartfelt presentations put this formula to work as she shares her wisdom plus little-known facts and info about alternative approaches to health, beauty and body/mind. The result? You'll reconnect with your feminine power and open to exciting new perspectives and possibilities for your life. Gina is also an expert in nutritional rejuvenation and chemicals in our environment and food supply, and she reveals little-known secrets that restore health and beauty. And her talks are not just for women. Her keynote talk for men reveals all they need to know about women’s issues and how to build intimacy with the women in their lives. You’ll leave her eye-opening presentations with a deep sense of self-love, self-confidence and self-healing rooted in a new understanding of the powerful medium of the Feminine. Her mantra? "Beauty is not skin-deep, but soul-deep and spirit-fed. It’s time to reclaim what we’ve lost and marry the ancient with the modern."

Her presentations include:

W.O.M.A.N.: A New Definition
Discover the magic inherent in W.O.M.A.N. – the new definition of “woman” as Wild, Open, Magical, Authentically-empowered, Nectar – and unleash your power!

Women’s Bodies as the Path to Self-Empowerment, Personally and Professionally
Tap into the enormous power of our biological cycles, specifically the menstrual cycle. Forget what they taught you about “that time of the month.” You’ll gain a new, positive perspective from this empowering presentation that restores the menstrual cycle to a place of honor and celebration in our lives and shows you how to use PMS (Powerful Monthly Sight) as a powerful tool to resolve problems and balance your life, both personally and professionally bringing you into harmony with your life as a woman

Honoring the Temple
What's your definition of beauty ─ and how much money do you spend weekly, monthly, annually, in its pursuit? Learn the secrets of natural beauty from the inside out as we explore food as a vehicle for beauty and health, safer health and beauty products, natural alternatives to cosmetic surgery and chemical therapies, and new ways to restore self-esteem.

Is Pornography Ruining Your Life?
A bold, non-blaming exploration into why men turn to pornography and the hold it can have on their lives and their relationships. The journey to authentic empowerment is no different for men than it is for women. Men will learn to look inside to find the key to living a life that honors themselves, the women in their lives, and women and girls in society.

Gina Cloud was born in New Orleans. She hosts her own live Internet radio show, “W.O.M.A.N.: A New Definition,” on www.contacttalkradio.com, heard weekly worldwide by an audience in 250 countries. She has been featured in Los Angeles newspapers, and she's a frequent talk show guest on women's issues, including “The Rolanda Watts Show” and “The Health and Beauty Revolution” (KPFK Pacifica Radio). Gina's new book, W.O.M.A.N.: A New Definition is available and Wild Nectar, her unique line of intimate apparel, is in development. Her knowledge, inspirational energy and passion for delivering the whole truth make her a powerful speaker. She is breathtakingly bold and will step into any arena fearlessly in order to uncover and deliver information relevant to empowering both women and men. She's a gifted transformational coach, author, dancer, mother, poet and healer. Her profound ability to connect with people at the heart makes her a powerful speaker and counselor for women seeking to love, accept and celebrate themselves.

Gina conducts workshops for girls and women and does one-on-one Natural Beauty coaching, aimed at transforming your entire life from the inside out. Her popular program and upcoming DVD, The Sacred Facts of Life, brings the message of the “sacred feminine” to young girls, age 8-12. You can view promotional segments of this workshop on YouTube. She is also the deeply devoted mother of a teenage daughter who now assists Gina in teaching her workshops for young girls.

What people are saying. . .

Gina Cloud is amazing!! She is so what I'm about ─ women being in control of their lives and the way they bring children into this world. I recommend this book to all women everywhere, especially mothers.
Ricki Lake, talk show host, producer “The Business of Birthing”

In four weeks of working with Gina, I finally got in touch with the real W.O.M.A.N. in me and cleared stuck feelings that 15 years of therapy never touched.
─ L. Joiner (client)

While her focus is geared towards women, even men (like myself) can learn greatly from Gina Cloud's teachings.
─ The Immaculate CJ Miller, U.S. Air force (Japan)

Gina Cloud opened the door into womanhood for my daughter. She guided her, along with a group of her peers, to openly, honestly and lovingly embrace who they were becoming as young women. She took away the mystery and the fear. She made it exciting and empowering. And just in time!
─ Risa Bramon García (mother of workshop participant)

Gina Cloud is doing work the world needs. We have to get back to basics, back into our bodies, and W.O.M.A.N. is our user's manual. This is vital, primary stuff here, people, told in a miraculously easy and funny way. A tool for men and women, boys and girls. Go women! GO GINA!
─ Pamela Adlon, Actress, D.O.G (Disciple of Gina)

Gina Cloud demonstrates in her life and her teachings that you can dance your own path. You don't have to do what you’re told, or play by rules that you did not write. She carries in herself an authentic, creative, individual womanhood. Her passionate, fierce, and playful engagement with life inspires us all ─ women and men ─ to be true to our unique and divine nature.
─ Tim Ward, author, Savage Breast: One Man's Search for the Goddess

My work in the feminist anti-pornography field has taken me onto many radio programs, answering questions from a wide range of people, and Gina Cloud’s show “W.O.M.A.N.” is one of my favorites. She isn’t afraid to confront the questions we need to be asking.
─ Robert Jensen, University of Texas at Austin, author of Getting Off: Pornography and the End of Masculinity

Gina's activist work, coupled with her deep, gentle sensitivity and open heart, is the power behind a revolution.
─ Giuditta Tornetta, author of Painless Childbirth: An Empowering Journey through Pregnancy and Birth.

I've been waiting for Gina Cloud's re-delivery of this sacred information since I got my first period!
─ Jacquie Jordan, Emmy-Nominated TV Producer, author of Get on TV! and founder of TVGuestpert.com.

Inquire about rates outside the area

Contact: 310.994.6475
Fax: : 310.459.1938
E-Mail: g.cloud@verizon.net
Website: http://www.redefiningwoman.com

2009-09-25T12:13:00.001-07:00

Production Coordination is a hard job! I am very blessed to have Bethanne on the Fem Mah Nyst team!

SIGN THE PETITION!

2009-09-23T23:05:00.000-07:00

Stomp out Domestic Violence!
Sign The Petition!
Only with your help can we end this Domestic Disaster, and bring the devastating effects to the attention on our government to help families dealing with this Crisis!

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/5/the-abuse-is-useless-campaign

Sincerely,
"The Fem Mah Nyst"

Abuse Is Useless!

2009-09-19T16:45:00.001-07:00

Abuse Is Useless
Get involved Today!
You can help save lives!
Visit www.sharemyworldonline.org
Sign the petition!

1st Annual 250 Men Stand Up & Speak Out

2009-09-15T22:44:00.000-07:00

1st Annual 250 Men Stand Up & Speak Out Against Domestic Violence Benefit
Saturday Nov 21st, 2009

The benefit starts at 11 a.m.

The fundraising dinner begin at 7:00 p.m. at the
Marina International Hotel

4200 Admiralty Way Marina del Rey,Ca

Participate!

Do your part to support the Abuse Is Useless Campaign.
Bring your family Saturday, November 21st for this benefit.

The first 250 people who sign up for the event will receive an official T-Shirt!
Registration is only $ 20 prior to the event and $ 25 on the day of the event.
Fundraising Dinner

The fundraising dinner is $ 100 per person with exciting speakers and an auction.

The dinner will feature
"The Voice Of Men

" an informative and entertaining multi-media play dealing with dating violence and domestic violence, sexual harassment and objectification.
The play uses humor, celebrity male voice impressions, and video clips.

The play is written by Jeremy Wells and Anastasia Short,

Registration

The Event is l listed on www.sharemyworldonline.org

Sponsorship Opportunities

Sponsors are needed
Make a statement that your business does not condone abuse of any kind and help save and rebuild lives at the same time.
With your help women and children are kept safe and receive the help they need to start over. In addition your help stops the cycle of abuse.
Then and only then can you affect the abused, abuser and those affected by abuse build healthy relationships.
Platinum sponsors are prominently displayed on the web, in print and T shirts with free on site training for a gift of $10,000.
Gold sponsors are also prominently displayed for a gift of $5,000.
Silver sponsors are listed for a gift of $1,000.
There will only be one sponsor per industry.
Sponsors will have links on our website.
Sponsorship donations are tax deductible.

Donations & Tickets

Can't make the events? Make a donation.

http://abuseisuseless.eventbrite.com/

The checks should be made paid payable to The Running Well Foundation, they may note in the memo section 250 men Benefit if they wish. Donations are tax deductible.

2009-09-14T10:41:00.001-07:00

Show Time! The Pin Up Diet with Rachel Car Johnson! XM Channel 169! Eat your Cake and drink Champange too!

2009-09-13T21:45:00.001-07:00

Long night ahead of Me! Show Prep and French! Let's see... I am shooting to be asleep by three! LoL

Becoming June Update!

2009-09-13T18:21:00.000-07:00

Week One: Everyone Survived....Barely

I hope everyone liked their meal well-done! This may be a little too well-done, actually more like well-charred! So far in less than a week I have not only managed to charr every dinner, but burn down the patio furniture in the process! Lesson Learned? Check grill for any sign of Gas Leaks, and when cooking near fire be sure to keep all Tiki accessories far from grill! Apparently, I learned that one a little too late!

Remembering 9/11

2009-09-11T08:23:00.000-07:00

Have You Forgotten?

I've been thinking about the victims and hero's of 9/11 all yesterday and this morning and can't believe it's been 8 years.

There isn't much I can do for those who suffered so greatly that day, but I ask as you rush through your day that you take a moment of silence to pay tribute to the Victims who's live were so greatly impacted, Hero's who rushed in and the Service Members who put their lives on the line to fight terrorism and to protect our freedoms as Americans everyday!

Sincerely Yours,
Amber Joy
"The Fem Mah Nyst"

Upcoming Show, Why Women Should Rule the World!

2009-09-09T16:12:00.000-07:00

Ucoming show!
Why Women Should Rule the World!
Friday 11am PST

Funny Video of a Reality Show about where Women are the Queen Bee's and Men are their Servants

September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month

2009-09-09T15:33:00.000-07:00

September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month!

Did you know that ovarian cancer kills more women than all other cancers of the reproductive system combined? But for women who are fortunate enough to have their cancer diagnosed early, the chance for recovery is 85 to 90 percent.

Please make sure that the women you know are aware of what Ovarian Cancer is, the symptoms and not afraid to ASK QUESTIONS of their doctor. Below has many items, including the warning signs.

What are the signs and symptoms of ovarian cancer?

Pelvic and abdominal pain, abdominal distress

Increased abdominal size, bloating, feeling full quickly

Unusual fatigue

Unexplained weight loss or gain

Shortness of breath

Lower back pain

Urinary frequency or urgency

Abnormal bleeding

If you have experienced one or more of these for longer than three weeks, make an appointment to see your doctor immediately.

Crazy Women Drivers, Are You For Real?!

2009-09-09T09:39:00.000-07:00

Guess what.. That right, we are going to look at the real statistics gentlemen!

You just have to Laugh!!

2009-09-01T11:30:00.000-07:00

The Fem Mah Nysts’ Guide for the Good Wife!!

2009-09-01T11:08:00.000-07:00

Plan dinner for yourself and family. Even if the food is from the Mc Donald’s drive through and presented in a greasy brown sac, it still counts as a dinner you planned. Making reservations at a favorite restaurant is also considered planning! It takes effort to flip through the directory, dial up the restaurant, then sit on hold a wait for a confirmation! Also asking your husband to pick something up on his way home is considered thinking ahead!!.

Take a nap, after all, you deserve to pamper yourself. Feeding, cleaning, dressing and running after children is a lot of work for anyone, even a SUPERDIVA like you! Plus, if you are rested, you are less likely to snap, pack up all the valubles in the house, empty all the bank accounts and leave your poor work exhausted husband alone to raise the children like you have threatened to do so many times before!. Also, to make yourself "fresh-looking", have the hubby watch the kids for you so you can take a nice relaxing bubble bath with lighted candles, soothing music, and maybe even have some time to shave. He needs to spend quality time with his treasured offspring anyhow!!

Take a Happy Pill if needed, Life can suck Lemons, and sometimes we all need a little pick me up! Do what makes you feel fulfilled and exciting! Your ability to dance around the house in your underwear singing “I’m Every Woman” is always a pleasant topic of conversation at the dinner table! However whatever it is that you do, do it for YOURSELF not for your spouses’ benefit because being "gay" for someone else's’ profit is just plain retarded.

Have the kids clean up their toys at the end of the day before bedtime. There's no point in putting them away while they are still playing, besides you are not a maid. Randomly, tossing all the toys into confined spaces or areas counts as cleaning up. The same goes for the heaping laundry piles overflowing out of every hamper in the house. Besides if you don't get the time or chance to clean up the “clutter”, maybe it is just the inspiration you need to get your husband to splurge on that housekeeper you undeniably deserve!

As long as that dust is not so thick that your child does not magically disappear during a freak indoor dust devil, it can wait. And if every appliance in your home is running when your husband returns, well it's a sign that you are a skilled multi-tasker and deserve a much needed break to sit and watch your favorite sitcom while he switches over & folds the laundry, then puts the dishes away.

Building a fire is fun! Try to do it in the fireplace though! If one is not available a Fire pit work fine too! And if you do, try not to "accidentally" burn the house down with your husband in when he expresses any dissatisfaction with any of your “undone chores,” even if it brings you "immense personal satisfaction."

Children and Dirt are two words in the dictionary that should be next to each other! If there is dirt in your yard you can bet they are rolling in it as you read this! As long as their hands are clean before they eat, so they are not infecting themselves from some atrocious cold, and they aren't tracking dirt all over your new carpet or smearing it all over your white couches then they're clean enough for now. Not to mention if they want to tackle and bombard their father with all their discoveries of the day when he walks in the door, more power to them. After all, you probably have received a PHD in child acrobatics and incoherent ramblings in the 8 hours he has been away!

Be happy to see your husband, assuming at this point in your marriage you still like each other! If not I suggest counseling! All that aside, remember raising children is like a tag team wrestling match, tag him when he walks through the door!

Give him a smile when he walks in the door, if he doesn't reek of another woman's scent, a kiss and a hug are always nice too. You probably missed him, so tell him. If you actually have the energy to inquire him how his day went, and are not too exhausted to hear the answer, ask! And if you love him, which is always a good thing, tell him!

Try to act like you are interested in his day, even if he starts to recite all the inappropriate manslang he heard around the water cooler at work this morning. However, chances are the Jokes are filthy and it’s not something you will ever share with your girlfriends anyways. Make a written list throughout the day (because mental notes are a bust anyhow) of all of the things that are actually important or relevant to tell your husband when he comes home. You’re a busy DIVA, you can’t expect to remember everything! At dinner makes sure you provide him with a pen and paper so he can take adequate and sufficient notes! When you speak your husband should listen, because all women quiz their husbands what they said later!

Everyone’s has bad days, hell some people have bad weeks! If this is you then spill it! The whole marriage thing is a partnership! You have every right to vent on a not so hot day, and it is his obligation to listen! Bear in mind, he retains the same right! However, if he goes out after work and stays out late, you also have the right to be upset and to make him sleep on the couch! Not to mention, you retain the right to ignore him completely on this weeks’ Girls Night Out.

Between your tiny little terrors & the indoor tornados of flying debris, dirt, dust, and toys you will lucky if you are able to find yourself a hiding spot behind the couch to escape and regroup! For gentlemen they have man-caves, it’s called a garage, where they can renew their bodies and spirits by playing with their power tools!

Going out after work for drink with his friends is not crime, however the door swings both ways! Life can be stressful on both ends, so in all fairness make sure he understands you get to go out with the girl’s tomorrow night!!

If you've both had a rough day then taking some time to relax is great idea, Beverages are always a plus too, especially ones with alcohol!!

Arranging pillows is something you do to make the sofas look nice, however, if you want to be kind enough to fluff a pillow for him, just try not to "arrange" it over his face. Not to mention, if you're speaking in low, soothing tones while you're doing it, it could tip him off that you might be up something!

Teachers always say there is no such thing as a stupid question! If his actions and judgment are alarming you, point it out! If he needs your help, to preserve his integrity, a swift kick in the pants may be deemed appropriate during these times. Just because your husband is a man (most are) doesn't mean he is entitled to be a Jerk. Remember, he may be the King of his castle, but you are the Queen of his universe!

A good queen knows her place, which is atop of her throne where she shall be worshipped, loved and adored by all.

2009-08-31T20:42:00.000-07:00

Becoming June

2009-08-30T18:49:00.000-07:00

The first time that I read this I was 19 years old! Stupidly Married and way to young to have been mature enough to handle a enlightened approach to such radical ideals. When my then ex-husband handed it to me, I laughed... Not just a polite giggle, but a roll in the floor and kick your feet type laugh! It seems I couldn't hold my tongue back then and I still can't.

Were women being sedated or beaten into submission back then??, Really come on, Who does this stuff??!! I really can't see how anyone would subject themselves to these kinds of expectations and submissive attitudes otherwise. When my current husband and I got married (Yes I divorced the other one for clear and obvious reasons) he knew that I refused and continue to adamantly object to becoming a "1950's JUNE CLEAVER!

1955 House Keeping Monthly

"The Good Wife Guide"

Verbatim

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal (especially his favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives.
Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc. and then run a dust cloth over the tables.
Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash their hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair, and if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.
Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer, or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.
Be happy to see him.
Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first-remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.
Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order, and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
Don't greet him with complaints and problems. Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing, and pleasant voice.
Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity.
Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness.
You have no right to question him.
A good wife always knows her place.

There is no doubt in my mind that "The Good Wife's Guide" was written by a man, probably one who had never been married and probably never did get married, for apparent reasons.
Tune in Tonight for my conclusions to my experiment Becoming June!
Also my personal thoughts and revised edition of "The Good Wife Guide"(which will posted at later Date!)
The "Fem Mah Nyst"
Amber Joy